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Nobody has any time anymore. This is the sad truth of our day and age. There are technologies that allow us to do things faster, this is true, but because those technologies exist, we are expected to do more. There is evidence of this everywhere. Because the cellphone permits people to be contacted anywhere at anytime, they are expected to be available anywhere at any time, which makes it a little difficult to get away from your job. Online dating is a natural extension of this trend. Since we have less time for our personal lives, we need to streamline them a little. This means that the messy and time consuming practice of meeting people in bars, or being introduced by relatives, must be discarded.
Bars are inefficient places. You go, you spend a lot of money, and maybe you meet someone or maybe you don't. Even if you do, the music is loud and the lighting is dim; these conditions are suited to establishing a rapport based on lust and body language, but such connections rarely endure a week. One can go through a great many partners like this without finding anyone they can connect with.
The advantage of online dating is that one is able to examine people in a much more honest setting than a bar. I know that some would argue otherwise. A person online can provide a false photo, and lie about their age, appearance, and social status. But the problems with a bar lie in the lack of communication, and online dating is nothing but communication. Chatting is a very good way to get to know someone. One of the most important things in any relationship is being able to understand one another, and it is possible, even easy to find matched communicating styles in an online dating site.
The other option is to depend on one's social circle to provide a suitable person. This is a half-hazard way of doing things, and at best it can produce two or three options. Since these people are drawn from among your immediate friends and co-workers, breakups usually involve damaging your social network.
Online dating has the advantage of numbers. Instead of begin forced to select from the paltry handful of possible partners available through a social network, a person on an online dating site has a huge sample size to work with. Thousands of the same age. Hundreds with similar interests and lifestyles. Since this pool of people is spread across the world, a bad relationship stands less chance of damaging your social network.
For those of us who find success in this world, it all come down to time, how we choose to manage it, kill it or spend it. A successful person needs a good sense of time management and efficiency. For this kind of person, online dating is ideal. It skips over all the messy details and inherent limitations of traditional dating. It pares away the wastes of time and energy, and reduces dating to something closer to its true purpose: a mechanism by which one may find a partner.
Author: Joe Davidson
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